33 사랑에 대한 진정한 사실

사랑에 대해 생각하기 위해 멈출 때 아마도 커플이 껴안거나, 손을 잡거나, 단순히 함께 일몰 속으로 걸어가는 모습을 상상할 것입니다. 사실, 당신은 당신이 꿈꾸는 특별한 사람과 사랑에 빠지는 자신을 상상할 수 있습니다. 완벽한 파트너에게 원하는 목록이있을 수도 있습니다. 흥미로운 점은 '사랑에 빠지는'동안 발생하는 생물학적 요인이 많다는 것입니다. 오늘날의 시대에 사랑은 지나치게 낭만적입니다. 따라서 아마도 당신은 사랑에 대한 과학적 / 진실한 사실을 알지 못할 것입니다.

관계 사실 사랑에 빠지는 것은 흥미로울 수 있습니다. 하늘이 더 푸르다. 색상이 더 밝아 보입니다. 장애물이 사라집니다. 새로 찾은 사랑 때문에 온 세상이 더 아름다운 곳인 것 같습니다. 이 모든 것이 사실이지만, 그러한 감정 중 일부는 뇌에서 방출되는 화학 물질 때문에 발생하는 것도 사실입니다. 사랑에 관한 과학적 사실은 그다지 낭만적 인 것은 아니지만 실제로는 매우 매력적입니다. 사랑이 슈퍼보다 적지 않다는 것을 증명하는 사랑에 대한 잘 알려지지 않은 사실을 살펴 보겠습니다.

33 당신을 놀라게 할 사랑 사실

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1. 사랑은 장수를 돕는다

사랑과 결혼과 함께 장수합니다. Journal of Marriage and Family 에 발표 된 연구에 따르면 결혼 한 개인은 결혼하지 않은 사람에 비해 8 년 동안 사망 할 확률이 58 % 낮았습니다 (1).

2. 사랑과 정욕은 뇌의 여러 영역에 영향을 미친다

원나잇 스탠드가 자동으로 동화 같은 로맨스로 이어지지는 않습니다. 연구에 따르면 사랑에 빠지면 공감과 연결된 뇌 영역이 활성화됩니다 (2). 그러나 정욕은 주로 동기 부여 및 보상과 관련된 뇌의 여러 영역과 연결되어 있습니다.

3. 붉은 장미는 공식적인 사랑의 꽃

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왜 장미가 연인에게 선택된 꽃인지 생각해 본 적이 있습니까? 장미는 로마의 사랑의 여신 비너스가 가장 좋아하는 것으로 간주되기 때문입니다.

4. 사랑은 정말 당신을 미친 짓으로 만든다

장면을 만들거나, 감옥에서 탈출하여 사랑하는 사람을 보거나, 그냥 어리석은 행동을하는 것과 같습니다. 애리조나에있는 죄수였던 Joseph Andrew Dekenipp에게 무슨 일이 일어 났는지 아십니까? 그는 발렌타인 데이에 여자 친구를 만날 수 있도록 감옥에서 탈출했습니다.

5. 세계 최장 결혼 86 년

6. 사랑은 당신을 더 공감하고 당신의 감정에 맞게 만든다

자신의 최고의 버전이되기 위해 노력하게 만드는 사람을 찾으면 그에 따라 뇌도 반응합니다. 과학 저널 인 Cognitive, Affective & Behavioral Neuroscience에 발표 된 연구에 따르면 행복한 관계에서 오는 사회적 연결은 감정 처리와 이타심을 담당하는 뇌 부분을 활성화합니다 (3).

7. 사랑은 단계적으로 발전합니다

사랑을 경험해 본 사람은 그것이 단계적으로 발전한다는 것을 압니다. 점차적으로 강도가 증가합니다. 그것은 점점 더 성숙하고 이해력있는 사랑으로 점차 순화되는 집착에서 시작됩니다.

8. 사랑은 혈압을 낮 춥니 다

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고혈압이라고도 알려진 고혈압 환자는 뇌졸중에서 심장병에 이르기까지 모든 것과 관련이 있음을 알고 있습니다. 다행스럽게도 Annals of Behavioral Medicine에 실린 연구에 따르면 행복한 결혼 생활은 혈압을 낮출 수 있습니다 (4). 당신의 건강을 유지하기 위해 파트너에게 키스하십시오!

9. 사랑은 당신이 더 빨리 치유되도록 도와줍니다

부상을 당하거나 아플 때 남편을 곁에 두는 것은 감정적 지원 만받는 것이 아닙니다. 파트너가 긴밀한 유대 관계를 공유하면 공개적으로 공격적인 관계에있는 사람들에 비해 부상이 더 빨리 치유됩니다.

10. 남자는 여자보다 더 빨리 사랑에 빠진다

The Journal of Social Psychology에 발표 된 한 연구에 따르면 남성은 사랑에 빠졌을 때 첫 걸음을 내딛습니다 (5). 그들은 대부분 관계에서“사랑해”라고 말하는 사람들입니다. 암컷이 상심하는 것을 더 두려워하기 때문일 수 있습니다.

11. 사랑에 빠지면 두통 빈도가 절반으로 줄어 듭니다.

Stanford University School of Medicine의 연구원들은 두통을 앓고있는 참가자의 50 %가 사랑 호르몬 인 옥시토신을 코 스프레이로 투여 한 후 약 4 시간 후에 통증이 절반으로 줄어든다고보고했습니다 (6). 추가로 27 %는 같은 기간 후에도 전혀 통증이 없다고 답했습니다.

12. 사랑과 웃음은 함께 간다

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13. 장거리는 관계를 강화할 수있다

사람들은 종종 장거리 관계가 작동하지 않는다고 말하지만 연구 결과는 그렇지 않습니다. Journal of Communication에 발표 된 연구에 따르면 장거리 관계는 일반 관계만큼 성공적 일뿐만 아니라 파트너 간의 신뢰 구축에도 더 좋습니다 (8).

14. 관계를 맺는 것은 긍정적 인 방식으로 당신의 성격을 형성 할 수 있습니다

Pessimistic people are known to change for the better when they find a little bit of love in their life. A study published in the Journal of Personality observed 245 young couples for around nine months (9). The scientists found that neurotic partners in a relationship became more self-confident and optimistic, thanks to all the positive experiences and emotions that come with being in a relationship.

15. Love Can Ease Chronic Pain

Love isn’t going to replace modern medicine any time soon. However, it can come in handy if you ever experience serious pain. In a study conducted by the Stanford University School of Medicine, researchers found that the warm and fuzzy feeling that love creates has the same response in the brain as strong painkillers do (10).

16. Cuddling Is Actually Good For You

There’s a good reason that couples love those snuggle sessions so much. Cuddling triggers the release of oxytocin, the happiness hormone, that betters your mood and increases your feeling of well-being. This phenomenon is so well-known that oxytocin is actually referred to as the “love hormone” or the “cuddling hormone.”

17. Love Is Chemically Addictive

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Romantic love is a very powerful addiction. This is because the hormones that your brain releases when you fall in love or are in love are euphoric. In fact, you may get so high that it can make you feel addicted to love as well as to the person you are in love with.

18. Love Is The Number One Reason Why People Get Married

More than 60% of the world’s population cited love as the reason they got married. The rest stated that financial stability was also an important factor.

19. The Heartbeats Of Couples Synchronize

When you and your partner gaze into each other’s eyes, what’s really happening is that your heart rates are syncing up. This has been stated by scientists at the University of California (11). The researchers have found that the couple’s heart rates were almost identical. This may be because of the strong link between couples on both physical and emotional levels.

20. Animals Commit To Monogamous Relationships As Well

Humans are not the only species in the animal kingdom that have monogamous relationships. Wolves, seahorses, beavers, otters, and barn owls are just a few of the other species that mate for life.

21. Hugging Your Partner Can Be An Instant Stress Reliever

Feeling extremely stressed? Hug it out with your lover. According to a study conducted by the University of North Carolina, psychiatrists found that when couples hugged, they had increased levels of oxytocin in their bodies (12). As mentioned before, oxytocin lowers stress levels and boosts mood. If you are having a rough day, doctors prescribe a long, tight hug!

22. Falling In Love Feels Like Being On Drugs

According to a study, that feeling of joy and euphoria you experience when you fall in love is essentially the same feeling that drug users experience (13). Both incidents trigger the release of hormones like adrenaline, dopamine, and oxytocin, giving you a real high.

23. It Can Only Take Up To 4 Minutes To Feel Attracted To Someone

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24. Both Guys And Girls Must Have Required Testosterone Levels For Sexual Attraction

Yes, even girls have small amounts of testosterone in their bodies. Testosterone is responsible for creating desire as well as aggressive behavior – which actually pushes the person to pursue the object of this desire.

25. Being In Love Has Neurological Effects Same As That Of Cocaine

Being in love is almost like taking a dose of cocaine. Both experiences affect the brain in a similar way and trigger a similar sensation. Researchers have found that being in love can result in the production of several euphoria-inducing chemicals, which stimulate 12 areas of the human brain at the same time (14).

26. Couples Who Are Very Similar To Each Other Are Not Likely To Last

As everyone knows, opposites attract. Research also proves that this is at least partially true. Partners who are too similar or too different don’t last very long. There must be similarities, but there also have to be differences so that the two of you can learn from one another.

27. Heartbreak Is Real

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There is evidence that severe traumatizing events, such as a divorce, death of a loved one, break-up, physical separation, cheating, or betrayal, can cause real physical pain in the area of the heart. This condition is known as Broken Heart Syndrome (15).

Intense emotional distress triggers the brain to release certain chemicals that weaken one’s heart, leading to shortness of breath and chest aches. The condition is so intense that it is often misdiagnosed as a heart attack. It affects women more often than men.

28. People Who Are In Love Have Chemical Reactions Similar To People With OCD

People in the early stages of love have lower levels of the hormone serotonin, which is directly associated with feelings of well-being and happiness. They also have higher levels of cortisol, which is associated with stress. This is very similar to those people who have OCD or Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder.

This explains why we don’t behave like ourselves when we fall for someone. It works the other way as well – people who have lower levels of serotonin tend to fall in love and get involved in sexual relationships quicker than others.

29. Butterflies In The Stomach Are Real – They Are Caused By Adrenaline

When you fall in love with someone, you can feel the butterflies dancing, flying, and fooling around in your tummy every time you see your special someone. They are caused due to adrenaline, which is released in your body as a flight or fight response.

30. Dilated Pupils Show That You Are Attracted To Someone

Darwin has stated that pupils expand during heightened focus and attention. This is true indeed, as this mostly occurs when people gaze at a beloved one or an object of desire, even if it is only a video or a picture. Moreover, people who have dilated pupils look more attractive to others as well.

31. People Are Attracted To Those With A Different Immune System

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If this isn’t weird, we don’t know what is. This was observed during a study run by Claude Wedekind of the University of Switzerland. He had female test subjects smell worn T-shirts of men (16). They consistently preferred the smell of those men’s shirts whose immune systems were different than their own.

32. Some People Can’t Feel Love

Some people who claim never to have fallen in love or felt romantic love are affected by a condition called hypopituitarism, which is a rare disease that doesn’t allow people to feel the high of love.

33. Your Body Has A “Vein Of Love”

Why are engagement rings worn on the fourth finger of the left hand? That is because the ancient Greeks believed that that finger has the vena amoris, or the “vein of love,” that connects straight to the heart. So romantic!

사랑과 매력은 복잡한 것이며 때로는 솔직히 이상합니다. 초기 감정을 헤쳐나가는 것이 어려울 수 있으므로 완전히 뛰어 들어 최고를 경험해 보는 것은 어떨까요? 당신의 연애 생활을 객관적으로 볼 때, 당신이 싫어하는 것을 주목하고 그것을 바꿀 계획을 세우고 앞으로 나아가십시오. 자신의 방식으로 삶을 살 수있는 기회는 단 한 번뿐입니다. 삶에서 완전한 행복과 사랑을 이루는 데 필요한 모든 것이 이미 있으니 두려워하지 마십시오. 당신은 손을 뻗어 그것을 잡기 만하면됩니다. 모두 제일 좋다!

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